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Beating ourselves up over mistakes we have made in the past get us NOWHERE!
It’s like digging a hole and slowly burying ourselves until we are lost, forever!
We have to change our attitude to the word mistake. What is a mistake? It is an experience we give ourselves to learn from. YES it is a GIFT!! Wow how exciting- a wonderful gift to enhance our lives. The only mistake is if we choose to be ignorant and learn nothing, then the gift goes out the window and we get nothing but anger bitterness, sadness and pain. All of which are a big waste of our time. Where is the Love in that? We are here on this planet to learn to love and accept ourselves, so grab those mistakes as we call them and learn, learn, learn. Give yourself this valuable gift and opportunity to learn and grow as a person.
Forgiveness is essential in this journey of life so embrace yourself and make a conscious decision to forgive yourself for your negative thoughts or actions. Maybe you have been holding on to something that is not even your fault or was out of your control. It is time to let go and you do this by making a conscious decision, make a choice not to carry around these destructive feelings. Give yourself a break!
If you feel that you have done the wrong thing by another person then step up and apologise.
Even if that person has left this planet, then write them a letter or speak to them in a prayer.
They will hear you.
Visualise that person as if they are standing right in front of you and tell them everything you need to say.
Then look in the mirror and give yourself the credit you deserve for stepping up.
Forgiveness is unconditional love, it is available to each and every one of us and gives us freedom, emotional freedom. So embrace yourself and these experiences you see as mistakes and transform them into a beautiful gift of love and forgiveness that you deserve. Move on and make room for peace and happiness.
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